I was sort of the house wife in that so any house related items were my job.
We were doing some repairs at the time too so I budgeted things like that. However, I think it's not different then what I experienced from my Grandmother(in charge) and she indeed was.
Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc.
Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing... The closest I can get to something like that is that I have been known to take over control of both paychecks and decide the budgets.
I wish I was that opened minded, but unfortuanlly I don't think I am.
I personally prefer equality in a relationship, compromising without either party losing out on core values/beliefs.
Each to his or her own, besides it is good to have minor fights sometimes, making up afterwards is always the fun part, and keeps life spiced up.
However, if one person takes charge, they need to make sure they care about their partners' needs and feelings no matter what their gender. There in lay the answer to MOST peoples trust issues.
I dont believe the average man can be trusted to consider his wifes feelings, hopes and desires for her.
I do like a bit of dominance and I know i'm not the "leader of the relationship". I prefer equality, which leans a bit on the male-dominance side.. As everyone can see this thread has the potential to go in every direction conceivable.